Running a poll, to prove a point to a friend of mine, that either he's right, or I'm right. Here's the issue:

 He has the point of view that flirting with women, and women flirting with him, is ok. Them sending photos to his phone, is ok. 

He was talking about it (hell, feel free to brag, I think he's certainly in a rare situation if these women ARE flirting with him) and I mentioned that I think he should tell his wife, and never keep any secrets from her of this nature, that are likely to be used against him in a child custody case, and or divorce. 

the above happens to be a Gucci scarf. I was curious if this image showed up on the internet anywhere else, https://us.vestiairecollective.com/women-accessories/scarves/gucci/beige-cotton-gucci-scarf-42410075.shtml

Why? I think these photos (and others, and videos) are bait. It's a Honey Trap, a loyalty test. To see if he'll cheat on his wife.  https://www.newsweek.com/cheating-honey-trap-boyfriend-loyalty-test-1794200 

Maybe his wife set it up, maybe his mother in law. Maybe, he's right and those beautiful young women half his age are making a pass at him, a married guy, 53 years old with a couple daughters, and about an extra hundred pounds of spare tire. (There ain't no damn way beautiful young women are hitting on a guy John Goodman's size, who ain't famous, ain't rich, and ain't Leo DeCaprio) 

That's my instant take on the situation 

He disagrees, said his dad's advice decades ago had been that what a wife don't know won't hurt you. 

So, chime in, in the comment section, and tell me, who's right. 

Don't type out why, just who is right. Him? Or me? Keep it that short, I'm only interested in discovering if I'm way out of touch with what's right and wrong, and since I already know all the married people have a lot to teach me, as I've never been married, I don't need to get into that here.